I found out I was getting divorced at 50. But somewhere in the middle of starting over, I noticed divorced people learn a set of skills, almost by accident, that married people never know.
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It's backed by real research and a lot of stories I'd rather not have lived through.
I'm a divorced dad of three, stepdad to one more. Before any of this happened, I spent 22 years running digital and customer experience teams at brands you've shopped at.
I'm not a therapist, and this isn't a clinical book. I'm the guy who learned the skills a few years too late to save my first marriage, and I'm handing them to you now while you still have something to use them on.
I'm also a Northwestern University Medill School of Journalism grad, living in Westport, Connecticut.
I built a Telegram bot that sends one small, specific tool every other day for two weeks, straight from the book. Nothing to buy, nothing to sign up for. Just the stuff I wish someone told me 20 years ago.
Substack's where I go longer. Real stories from married life, before and after, plus stuff that hasn't made it into the book yet. Same voice you're getting here, just more of it.