The secrets divorced people learn, before you need them.

A Divorced Dad's Playbook for the Still-Married. ​
Hard-won secrets so you can be a better partner, parent & person.

I got divorced at 50. I didn't fight to save my marriage, and I'll tell you why in the book. But somewhere in the middle of starting over, I noticed something nobody warns you about: divorced people learn a set of skills, almost by accident, that married people never know.

This isn't a book about whether to leave. It's a book of small, specific habits for people who've decided their marriage is worth the work.

It's backed by real research and a lot of stories I'd rather not have lived through.

Hi, I'm David.

I got divorced at 50, after spending my career running digital and customer experience teams at brands you've shopped at. I'm not a therapist, and this isn't a clinical book.

This book is what I wish someone had given me while I was still married: The tools divorced people learn by accident, handed to you while you still have something to use them on.